Independent thoughts, feelings, decisions, dreams and much more. Some things that women shouldn’t be familiar with according to the patriarchal society we live in. It’s sad that instead of treating her as a wonderful creation of nature that deserves equal rights to survive independently, people often treat her as a vulnerable and fragile female being.
She’s judged since the day she saw the light of the external world. She’s judged for her being born as a female as an infant. She’s judged for being a tomboy, for hanging out with boys rather than girls, for dressing according to her comfort which might be too exposing for the stupid world, for talking loud, for being silent, for choosing her own career, for smoking, for drinking, for getting high, for talking about sex openly, for the number of boys she hang out with, for the way she eat, for the way she tie her hair, for her skin colour, for the stain in her light coloured skirt, for her bra straps, for her deep neck t-shirts, for her shorts, for her flat chest, for her loose tummy, for her skinny body, for her fat body and what not ! When it comes to talk about women, most of them becomes the pessimistic narrow minded assh**es.
You be an independent woman with your own perspectives and if you don’t care about the societal norms and rules for the right woman thing.. then you are called slut, whore, bitch and many names like that.
Broke up ?
Ohkay so she goes out with lots of guys. Told you not to date her ! She’s a slut.
Relationship request ?
Denied or Ignored
She was not good anyways. She had a lot of relationships before and she dumped them all. She’s a bitch !
She was into adultery !
Working with men ?
She actually go for one night stands !
Hanging out with boys ?
She’s easily available
Letting men friends hold her hands ?
Letting men hug her ?
Dude, she’s seeking physical pleasure. Eeew, she’s a whore!
Searching for a perfect bride ?
Look for the ones who aren’t modern
Look for the ones who aren’t popular
Look for virgins! Girls who has sex before marriage are not good.
Living together with her love ?
I knew she wouldn’t marry. She always wants to have it with different men.
Posting hot pics online ?
She’s ready for sex
Bare legs and Cleavage ?
She’s filthy. She want to attract men !
And the verbal molestation against independent, free minded women never ends !
It’s always on this ascending line. Women emancipation, women rights, equality, feminism… everything shrinks into juz mere combination of alphabets. Nothing changes. It’s fine if a man is popular and if it’s a woman… she’s called names and judged. I don’t understand what sin a woman has done for having the ill fate of being judged this way.
I feel muted 🤐
Hope some day every bit of these narrow minded morons are gonna realise how hard it feels to be misjudged and forbidden from being who you are.
Waking up everyday, being a free minded woman, you feel that negative voices creep inside your head calling you names. Hanging out with your comfortable looks, you see those uncomfortable stares at your body. You take your social media profiles and you find those filthy messages asking you out, thinking that you are easily available because of your public account and hot pictures. You need to cover your legs. Hide your curves. Don’t reveal your cleavage. You are surrounded by so much of negativity, just because you are a free minded woman, that you end up being like; “Can I even stay alive ?” But, through all that she survived. Through those rough phases like a warrior. Hope there comes a day when every single woman on the planet can just live her life rather than surviving through obstacles.
not Fragile and Vulnerable !
( P:S Felt like I should be posting this, being a woman who has had almost all the problems of having independent thoughts.)